MAX ON LIFE

79. My parents aren't Christians, so it's difficult for me to trust the advice they try to give me about my career choices. How can I find godly wisdom to make good choices?

The fifth commandment does not say, "Honor your God-fearing mother and father who have a Christian worldview". It says, "Honor your father and your mother" (Ex 20:12). Period. There's no specification about their beliefs. So honor them by at least hearing what they have to say.

Surely you would listen to cooking suggestions from a five-star chef and remodeling tips from an expert handyman even though they weren't Christians. Wisdom is wisdom, and it comes in all shapes and sizes from all kinds of people.

But when the words of the world fall short, go to the Lord.

"I will guide you along the best pathway for your life. I will advise you and watch over you." (Ps 32:8)

"Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take." (Prov 3:6)

"My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me." (John 10:27)

Then go to the Bible.

"For the word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edge sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart." (Heb 4:12)

God's Word is a living and active counselor in your time of need.

Feeling betrayed? "I will never fail you. I will never abandon you" (Heb 13:5).

Feeling anxious? "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God" (Phil 4:6).

Feeling underappreciated? "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men" (Col 3:23).

So listen to your parents; then go to the Lord and his living Word. You can't go wrong with that combination.

By: Max Lucado